I know. It's awful. I have talked the MiL down, she will stay on her own in Dorset.My wifes birthday tomorrow, My kids and her grandkids won't be here visiting, Although she'll see them via wattsapp its not the same and i know its hitting her hard, One rule for them etc
Many happy returns to Mrs DB9.
Buying presents has been a nightmare even, but that is very much a luxury problem to have!