It certainly is interesting how to approach youngsters with talent in this regard, would be interesting to see it from their POV for sure. A Cricket mate of mine has a son who is around 10/11 now and is on the books of Crystal Palace (and Sorry CCC - he's already a better player than his Dad...). I'm keen to see how he gets on (or not) and his treatment.Sam Gallagher & Sean Goss were both in the same school year (and school football team,) at QES, Crediton & are good friends.
Gossy was signed for City aged 8 & Gallagher signed for Argyle aged 9 (I think !)
Gossy was signed from Crediton Youth (where he was allowed to play until he was 14,) & I don't think that Gallagher was ever allowed to play for anyone else (apart from school teams,) & City never had any chance of signing him as his Dad (a former pro,) took him directly to Argyle for trials . It was interesting to contrast the approach of the two clubs attitudes to the lads.
It would've wrecked their lives being that involved at such a young age & being deemed, not quite good enough. I am fairly sure that I have got my facts correct ! I hope that they both have long & great careers, they've sacrificed a lot & earned it.