Ashford Grecian
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Couldn't bear to look on the forum or post until now, still have floods of tears over this awful news... RIP Adam you will always be Citys No. 9
Well said. I echo this. You have to remember Stanno didn't want a fuss made and refused to allow the players to wear shirts with his name on when he was diagnosed with it.Stanno had the same operation in the same week as my father-in-law. My father-in-law passed away two months ago. He rallied after the operation but soon the cancer took hold again, and when he finally passed away initially there was relief because the pain was at an end. You always clutch at the smallest of straws and in some way I hoped the torch had been passed to Stanno. Sadly this is the most unforgiving of diseases, and when you think its done its worst, it will come back and haunt you again.
I think a Testamonial for Stanno with all proceeds going to the Bowel Cancer Charity would be the best way to honour him and leave a lasting legacy towards the battle against the disease. You can't do much for those that have departed, but you can carry on fighting for those that still continue to be afflicted with it.
For those requesting postponment of fixtures, training etc, I ask you what would have Stanno wanted? This is the question you always ask when you are feeling down when you have lost someone to cancer. The answer is you carry on, we all know Stanno would have wanted us to, in fact I could imagine him being quite embarassed if a fixture was called off on his behalf.
He made such a huge impact in his short life and let us take comfort in the fact that Adam left us fully knowing how much he was loved by his family, friends and everyone at Exeter City, Yeovil, Hereford etc. Not too many people are able to say that.
Whilst I agree a testamonial is a great idea I do think we should consider proceeds going to his family. After all, he leaves his wife and kids behind and they should have all the help we can give them.I think a Testamonial for Stanno with all proceeds going to the Bowel Cancer Charity would be the best way to honour him and leave a lasting legacy towards the battle against the disease. You can't do much for those that have departed, but you can carry on fighting for those that still continue to be afflicted with it.